There is a 1 to 17 male to female ratio so naturally when they are in the presence of one another the attention is on the female. Both a lady and a woman will draw the attention of the crowd. The difference is that when you are considered a lady you are seen and not heard. A lady becomes noticed. A woman on the other hand makes herself noticed rather than being noticed. A woman will still the show by drawing attention to herself. A lady remains herself quite elegantly, she allows the attention to come to her.
Females are the strongest creatures God created. We can carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and still stand. Females are also the most argumentative people i think. But a lady knows how to hold her weight and not show it to the world. A lady can be holding hot rocks on the inside, yet a smile on her face and an attitude so bright you'd never know that there was something wrong. She holds her composure the the toughest circumstances and never shows you that she can be broken. When a woman is going through something the entire world will know it. She is bitter and has an attitude about everything, letting her troubles and worries affect her life. A woman allows the stress of being a females control her life, she shows people her weak points.
Women and ladies become mothers, they marry, have children and love strongly. Females seem to carry the love of the universe. A woman will have kids, she supports her family independently. She is able to maintain a marriage or long term relationship and not lose herself. A Lady doesn't have children she raises a family even if its alone. She is never in a relationship she's part of a partnership. She commits to whatever she has to even if it means giving up part of herself for the good of something or someone else.
Both a woman and a lady are special people and if they were all the same it might throw the world off balance. I applaud both because you need one to check the other. You need woman to show you the world is not perfect but you need a lady to remain you that maybe it's not but be yourself hold your head high and remember God made us females superior for a reason, take it how it's giving to you and be two sided but show the world that side that was meant to be seen. Be A Lady!!!