Tuesday, October 20, 2009

woman vs lady

A female can be classified in my opinion as a woman or a lady. Either term can be used but have two different meanings. The way that a female acts, looks, and reacts can classify her as either and this is just my .
There is a 1 to 17 male to female ratio so naturally when they are in the presence of one another the attention is on the female. Both a lady and a woman will draw the attention of the crowd. The difference is that when you are considered a lady you are seen and not heard. A lady becomes noticed. A woman on the other hand makes herself noticed rather than being noticed. A woman will still the show by drawing attention to herself. A lady remains herself quite elegantly, she allows the attention to come to her.
Females are the strongest creatures God created. We can carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and still stand. Females are also the most argumentative  people i think. But a lady knows how to hold her weight and not show it to the world. A lady can be holding hot rocks on the inside, yet a smile on her face and an attitude so bright you'd never know that there was something wrong. She holds her composure the the toughest circumstances and never shows you that she can be broken. When a woman is going through something the entire world will know it. She is bitter and has an attitude about everything, letting her troubles and worries affect her life. A woman allows the stress of being a females control her life, she shows people her weak points.
Women and ladies become mothers, they marry, have children and love strongly. Females seem to carry the love of the universe. A woman will have kids, she supports her family independently. She is able to maintain a marriage or long term relationship and not lose herself. A Lady doesn't have children she raises a family even if its alone. She is never in a relationship she's part of a partnership. She commits to whatever she has to even if it means giving up part of herself for the good of something or someone else.
Both a woman and a lady are special people and if they were all the same it might throw the world off balance. I applaud both because you need one to check the other. You need woman to show you the world is not perfect but you need a lady to remain you that maybe it's not but be yourself hold your head high and remember God made us females superior for a reason, take it how it's giving to you and be two sided but show the world that side that was meant to be seen. Be A Lady!!!

3 comments:

  1. I really enjoyed reading your essay. I could easily infer from the title and introduction what the essay was going to be about. However, at first I thought it was an argumentative essay and the more I read, the more I thought that you were trying to favor 'a lady' over 'a woman' and so then the conclusion paragraph threw me off a bit because you said that you "applaud both" & then your last sentence says "be a lady". So I finished confused. My advice is that if you aren't making this an argumentative essay, to be sure that you state your thesis or maybe something about "applauding both" in your introduction paragraph to avoid any confusion.
    Oh yeah, & I really liked your choice of topic :)

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  2. I hope that I am not the only man to read this,but here goes. Every paragraph displayed passion in what you are saying. I admire that. Every paragragh was well organized with every point. I really enjoyed your paper and it was an eye opening experience.

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  3. Great topic. You kept me intrested all the way! lol. One thing i'd say is be careful of your spellings and also, it seems like the paper favors the lady over the woman. I think it should have been balanced. Overall, it was still intresting.

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